WHY MUST YOU BE SOOOOO HOLY!!!

Smoking, shisha (hookah), pornography, heavy drinking, sex before marriage, getting a girlfriend for fun.

Most of this were the stuff that some of my friends always ask me to try. My answer you may ask, is, and always will be, NO!!! And when the word "NO" escape my mouth, this is the usual reply that I get.

a) DAMN!!! THIS SHOW THAT YOU ARE NOT A MAN AT ALL!!!
b) ARE YOU EVEN HUMAN?
c) GETTING INTO A FOR FUN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER!!!

So here is some question I will ask them:

a) Must I smoke and drink alot to show that I'm a man? Is it wrong to keep my body healthy?

b) Do I really have to get a girlfriend just for the fun of it? Why can't I get into a serious relationship? Is my  decision wrong?

c) Must watching pornography and having sex before marriage show that I'm a human? NO!!! So are you saying I'm not human?

I mean come on people. Must I do all of this to show that I'm a man? There are plenty of other ways for me to show that I'm a man.

All of this will eventually lead to their final question:

"WHY MUST YOU BE SOOOOO HOLY!!! WHY MUST YOU BE SO RELIGIOUS?!"

So? why can't I? I ask you right now. Is it wrong?

But one thing I know for sure is I will respect you and still treat you as my friend but I will never follow what you do  no matter what you say, no matter how you mock me, I will never join you in any of those acts.